Category Archives: Blog


Are you here because you’ve recently experienced loss of some sort?  Does it feel like something is missing? Chances are, the hole in your heart is connected not just this loss, but to other disappointments in the past. Below is my story. I humbly share this with you as a way of connecting the dots… Read More »

How walking my own camino changed my life

Last night, I saw a post on FB about walking the Camino. The Camino de Santiago is a 500 mile path that starts over the border of Spain and continues into 4 of Spain’s 15 regions. According to the Catholic tradition, completing this trek forgives one’s sins. Since then, millions of lives have been forever… Read More »


The Kindness of Others Comments are closed. A. Shackman, Los Angeles Claire not only helped me through an difficult time but also helped me make an incredibly decision by offering me tremendous comfort and practical advise. I can’t imagine how I would have coped without her. Margalit Ward Claire has the amazing gift of being… Read More »

Modern Pet Loss

Introducing Moden Pet Loss: A digital e-course illuminating love and healing to grieving pet owners in the privacy of their own home. When loss is experienced, often people retreat and need space to heal.  Getting in a car to visit a therapist can be a difficult task in the initial phase of healing. With this… Read More »


“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.” ~Kahlil Gibran FOR THOSE READY FOR CHANGE You’ve been out at sea for a long time on a boat called “Loss and Life’s Disappointments.” It’s a lonely in a… Read More »


Hello there! You may have noticed the word LOVE not LOSS. No, it’s not a spelling error. It is my fondest wish that LOVE is the bottom line for all of the woes that may have brought you here. As an intuitive coach, I serve as a “human bridge” between you and your pet. With… Read More »

Don’t be cheap with your love

Hello beautiful souls, Immersed in the world of creating life after loss, I know both professionally and personally how challenging the journey of change can. This is especially true when we want something to change (um, yesterday please). It doesn’t matter if we are moving through grief, trying to release weight, create a new habit,… Read More »

Feel it so you can heal it!

Today, I want to speak to my alter ego that’s been crowding my space. I call her Tough Tammy. Tough Tammy is type A and a go-getter. She is all about making it happen. Especially when she is grieving, she likes to keep busy. It helps her keep the lid on her emotions. I wrote… Read More »

Why I am not sugarcoating my loss

Warning: This week’s post is intensely personal, and my perspective may not resonate with everyone. This is just a humble perspective of loss from a party of one.  On 2/11/14, I had a miscarriage. For 6-7 brief weeks, he appeared, but suddenly he was gone. I even named him, spirit baby Michael. For 2 weeks, I allowed… Read More »

Get your “joy sparkles” on!

Ten years ago, My heart was broken. I was grieving deeply, having just said good-bye to a marriage followed by the death of my beloved dog, Sophie. Sophie was my little dutch boy with his finger in the dam. The catalyst for me to shine the flashlight on my own grief. I started a luxury… Read More »